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Hedge writes about musings, poetry, stories, and things she finds interesting, Which hopefully will provide you with a quick laugh. Maybe you'll find it interesting, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll know her as Eccentric Mare, Spreading Wings or the Mad Yank of Yorkshire as the the incarnations of blogging trials and tribulations have taken it's toll. Anyhoo - Thanks for visiting. Have a great day.

Tuesday, 18 March 2014

96 Days to Go ! 634 days survived.

It's amazing to sit here and recap what I've been through in the past year, 8 months and 24 days.
It's more phenomenal that I survived the 15 years, 9 months and 16 days before it!   All in all it's been 17 years, 6 months and 12 days to date.

The road for the next couple years will be rough.  Maybe longer.

But absolutely no regrets, and complete confidence that for once in my life I made the right decision.

The great news, I've already been replaced.  Not even divorced yet and he's engaged.

Ok it ain't all sunshine and roses, there are some significant issues, but in a very short time, he will no longer be able to manipulate my life, saying he is my husband and trying to use all of my resources for his sole benefit, something he has done for way too long.   He's built a lovely house of cards, and I hope I'm well out of Dodge when it falls.   There was a time where I wanted to be a fly on the wall, to witness it for self satisfaction, but frankly, it's just not worth my time.   I have a lot to do.....a life to get on leading and sorting out.

Yea, I'm sure I'll make mistakes, but fire up REM's song - it's the end of the world as we know it, cause I'm still standing, granted I'm awaiting results on a scan for sinuses and not as fit and well as I'd like to be but I'm still fine.